— from “A Father’s Story” by Andre Dubus, quoted in “God never Blinks” by Regina Brett

….and the imagination can also be the culprit behind reliving the past, whether its looking back at painful memories or glorious times. Then again, I don’t think there is anything wrong with remembering the past. In fact, its good to look back to see where on has come from and for one to remind him/herself of lessons learned. I don’t think there is anything wrong either with envisioning a future where you reap the fruits of the seeds you plant today. Lastly, we shouldn’t take the quote as a vilification of our imagination as it is one of our greatest assets. It is where great things are born in the form of ideas.

I guess the operative word here is “INSISTS”. When our minds become too involved with the past and/or the future that we lose our focus on now. The now that will become “yesterday”. The now that will help form “tomorrow”.

I’m guilty of this. I think a number of us are. I envy those who can easy just be in the NOW with a healthy relationship with what’s past and have a healthy dose of hope for the future.

Little by little, I find more of those moments where I’m simply “right here right here right NOW”. It feels great. I feel peace flow through me. I’m grateful for those moments because sometimes, I still slip into that old habit of immersing myself in the past. It happens more often that I want it to.

Being in the now is an art that takes time to master, an art the I’m working on.

Here’s a little reminder that you do make it happen… and just don’t realize it…

A couple of weeks ago, you went jogging. While jogging, you though of an idea – 26 trees for my 26th year. That’s what you told yourself. You shared the idea with some people close to you. Shortly after, on the weekend before your birthday, you did it. With the help of some people in the company of a good friend, you planted 26 trees for your 26th year. It was an awesome idea. You shared the idea with other and people loved it. Now some people are considering doing the same. All it took was to act upon the idea and make it happen.

Remember this Patty when you feel like you’re not making it happen. You did, you do, and you will continue to make it happen.

(walk way)

It can get quite scary but its the good kind of scary. I don’t think its fear. I think its anticipation of what can happen and that uncomfortable feeling of stepping out of your comfort zone. What’s funny is, I feel more me when I get out of my comfort zone.

I have nothing against normalcy and routine but when normalcy and routine begin to kill inspiration, creativity, and your spirit, you know you gotta step out of your current state. You need a little chaos to maybe find yourself again or answer those questions that have kept you stuck in a rut in the first place .

I’m blogging this for you. You may need it more than I do.

I’m blogging this for all, since I believe many of us need to stop going through the motions and really listen to intuition.

Passion: The Ultimate Key to Productivity

http://gigaom.com/collaboration/passion-as-%E2%80%9Cthe-ultimate-productivity-tool%E2%80%9D/

The morning was quite different.

On my way out this morning, I was hoping to find a cab right away because I didn’t want to take the long route (tricycle + shuttle + fort bus). The moment I got out of the village gate, I saw a cab heading my direction. “Oh, swerte” (oh lucky), I thought to myself. Cabs aren’t that easy to come by in that area.

A very light floral scent greeted me as I boarded the cab. It was a nice smell…not your the piercing, headache-inducing, citrus car freshener smell. The cab was very clean and tidy too. “This is nice”, I thought to myself. I told the cab driver my destination and he gave me a polite nod. After that, he turned off the FM radio and put in a CD that played hotel lobby-like music. This is rare. Normally, the cab drivers will play some local station at almost full volume… to the point that speakers were actually struggling. I’ve gotten used to it and my friends and I joke about it a lot but it can get really annoying.

To top it all off…. the driver offered me the morning paper. I was thinking,”this is for real?” Then he locked the doors and told me our route because he passed the other route and it was traffic. I said, “ok”.

We passed the back streets to avoid the morning traffic. The back streets could be quite stressful to navigate through due to the narrow roads, the kids running on the street, and the tricycles that go every which way. He just stayed relaxed and hummed along with the CD.

As we got closer to my office, I told him that I appreciated the clean cab, the music, and him offering the morning paper. And I told him thanks for the pleasant morning ride. Its not everyday I ride a cab and get treated this nicely. He said with a polite smile,”Ginagawa ko lang po trabaho ng maayos” (Just doing my job properly). I told him to keep it up.

Finally, we arrived at my destination and checked the meter. Php 90.00. If it were tampered, it would read Php 110.00 or Php 120.00. But no. It read Php 90.00.

I paid the fair plus a little extra and wished him well. It was a very pleasant surprise. I wish more cab drivers were like that.

Simplify
De clutter
Inspiration
Internal Commitment
Bravery
Meditate
DO

I know it. I feel it in the marrow of my bones
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I’m turning 26 in a few days. How do I celebrate it? I can always throw a party… but to be honest, I don’t really feel like doing that this year. As I enter the 2nd quarter of my life, I want to keep things simple, I want to put my energy and resources in things that matter more… give back a little something…

If I could afford the time to go on a one week secular retreat I would. I could use the retreat from all the noise of living in the urban jungle…. and to refocus. Things have been clearing up for me little by little. I would want to be able to wipe the “glass” and see even clearer.

26 trees. I’ll plant 26 trees for my 26th year.

And I’ll create 26 ways to make life simpler and richer.

By Alex Lacson

After the August 23 hostage drama, there is just too much negativity
about and against the Filipino.

“It is difficult to be a Filipino these days”, says a friend who works
in Hongkong. “Nakakahiya tayo”, “Only in the Philippines” were some of
the comments lawyer Trixie Cruz-Angeles received in her Facebook.
There is this email supposedly written by a Dutch married to a
Filipina, with 2 kids, making a litany of the supposed stupidity or
idiocy of Filipinos in general. There was also this statement by Fermi
Wong, founder of Unison HongKong, where she said – “Filipino maids
have a very low status in our city”. Then there is this article from a
certain Daniel Wagner of Huffington Post, wherein he said he sees
nothing good in our country’s future.

Clearly, the hostage crisis has spawned another crisis – a crisis of
faith in the Filipino, one that exists in the minds of a significant
number of Filipinos and some quarters in the world.

It is important for us Filipinos to take stock of ourselves as a
people – of who we truly are as a people. It is important that we
remind ourselves who the Filipino really is, before our young children
believe all this negativity that they hear and read about the
Filipino.

We have to protect and defend the Filipino in each one of us.

The August 23 hostage fiasco is now part of us as Filipinos, it being
part now of our country’s and world’s history. But that is not all
that there is to the Filipino. Yes, we accept it as a failure on our
part, a disappointment to HongKong, China and to the whole world.

But there is so much more about the Filipino.

In 1945, at the end of World War II, Hitler and his Nazi had killed
more than 6 million Jews in Europe. But in 1939, when the Jews and
their families were fleeing Europe at a time when several countries
refused to open their doors to them, our Philippines did the highly
risky and the unlikely –thru President Manuel L Quezon, we opened our
country’s doors and our nation’s heart to the fleeing and persecuted
Jews. Eventually, some 1,200 Jews and their families made it to
Manila. Last 21 June 2010, or 70 years later, the first ever monument
honoring Quezon and the Filipino nation for this “open door policy”
was inaugurated on Israeli soil, at the 65-hectare Holocaust Memorial
Park in Rishon LeZion, Israel.

The Filipino heart is one of history’s biggest, one of the world’s
rare jewels, and one of humanity’s greatest treasures.

In 2007, Baldomero M. Olivera, a Filipino, was chosen and awarded as
the Scientist for the Year 2007 by Harvard University Foundation, for
his work in neurotoxins which is produced by venomous cone snails
commonly found in the tropical waters of Philippines. Olivera is a
distinguished professor of biology at University of Utah, USA. The
Scientist for the Year 2007 award was given to him in recognition to
his outstanding contribution to science, particularly to molecular
biology and groundbreaking work with conotoxins. The research
conducted by Olivera’s group became the basis for the production of
commercial drug called Prialt (generic name – Ziconotide), which is
considered more effective than morphine and does not result in
addiction.

The Filipino mind is one of the world’s best, one of humanity’s great
assets.

The Filipino is capable of greatness, of making great sacrifices for
the greater good of the least of our people. Josette Biyo is an
example of this. Biyo has masteral and doctoral degress from one of
the top universities in the Philippines – the De La Salle University
(Taft, Manila) – where she used to teach rich college students and was
paid well for it. But Dr Biyo left all that and all the glamour of
Manila, and chose to teach in a far-away public school in a rural area
in the province, receiving the salary of less than US$ 300 a month.
When asked why she did that, she replied “but who will teach our
children?” In recognition of the rarity of her kind, the world-famous
Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) in the United States
honoured Dr Biyo a very rare honor – by naming a small and new-
discovered planet in our galaxy as “Biyo”.

The Filipino is one of humanity’s best examples on the greatness of
human spirit!

Efren Penaflorida was born to a father who worked as a tricycle driver
and a mother who worked as laundrywoman. Through sheer determination
and the help of other people, Penaflorida finished college. In 1997,
Penaflorida and his friends formed a group that made pushcarts
(kariton) and loaded them with books, pens, crayons, blackboard,
clothes, jugs of water, and a Philippine flag. Then he and his group
would go to the public cemetery, market and garbage dump sites in
Cavite City – to teach street children with reading, math, basic
literacy skills and values, to save them from illegal drugs and
prevent them from joining gangs. Penaflorida and his group have been
doing this for more than a decade. Last year, Penaflorida was chosen
and awarded as CNN Hero for 2009.

Efren Penaflorida is one of the great human beings alive today. And he
is a Filipino!

Nestor Suplico is yet another example of the Filipino’s nobility of
spirit. Suplico was a taxi driver In New York. On 17 July 2004,
Suplico drove 43 miles from New York City to Connecticut, USA to
return the US$80,000 worth of jewelry (rare black pearls) to his
passenger who forgot it at the back seat of his taxi. When his
passenger offered to give him a reward, Suplico even refused the
reward. He just asked to be reimbursed for his taxi fuel for his
travel to Connecticut. At the time, Suplico was just earning $80 a day
as a taxi driver. What do you call that? That’s honesty in its purest
sense. That is decency most sublime. And it occurred in New York, the
Big Apple City, where all kinds of snakes and sinners abound, and a
place where – according to American novelist Sydney Sheldon – angels
no longer descend. No wonder all New York newspapers called him “New
York’s Most Honest Taxi Driver”. The New York City Government also
held a ceremony to officially acknowledge his noble deed. The
Philippine Senate passed a Resolution for giving honors to the
Filipino people and our country.

In Singapore, Filipina Marites Perez-Galam, 33, a mother of four,
found a wallet in a public toilet near the restaurant where she works
as the head waitress found a wallet containing 16,000 Singaporean
dollars (US $11,000). Maritess immediately handed the wallet to the
restaurant manager of Imperial Herbal restaurant where she worked
located in Vivo City Mall. The manager in turn reported the lost money
to the mall’s management. It took the Indonesian woman less than two
hours to claim her lost wallet intended for her son’s ear surgery that
she and her husband saved for the medical treatment. Maritess refused
the reward offered by the grateful owner and said it was the right
thing to do.

The Filipina, in features and physical beauty, is one of the world’s
most beautiful creatures!Look at this list – Gemma Cruz became the
first Filipina to win Miss International in 1964; Gloria Diaz won as
Miss Universe in 1969; Aurora Pijuan won Miss International in 1970;
Margie Moran won Miss Universe in 1973; Evangeline Pascual was 1st
runner up in Miss World 1974; Melanie Marquez was Miss International
in 1979; Ruffa Gutierrez was 2nd runner up in Miss World 1993;
Charlene Gonzalez was Miss Universe finalist in 1994; Mirriam Quiambao
was Miss Universe 1st runner up in 1999; and last week, Venus Raj was
4th runner up in Miss Universe pageant.

I can cite more great Filipinos like Ramon Magsaysay, Ninoy Aquino,
Leah Salonga, Manny Pacquaio, Paeng Nepomuceno, Tony Meloto, Joey
Velasco, Juan Luna and Jose Rizal. For truly, there are many more
great Filipinos who define who we are as a people and as a nation –
each one of them is part of each one of us, for they are Filipinos
like us, for they are part of our history as a people.

What we see and hear of the Filipino today is not all that there is
about the Filipino. I believe that the Filipino is higher and greater
than all these that we see and hear about the Filipino. God has
beautiful story for us as a people. And the story that we see today is
but a fleeting portion of that beautiful story that is yet to fully
unfold before the eyes of our world.

So let’s rise as one people. Let’s pick up the pieces. Let’s ask for
understanding and forgiveness for our failure. Let us also ask for
space and time to correct our mistakes, so we can improve our system.

To all of you my fellow Filipinos, let’s keep on building the Filipino
great and respectable in the eyes of our world – one story, two
stories, three stories at a time – by your story, by my story, by your
child’s story, by your story of excellence at work, by another
Filipino’s honesty in dealing with others, by another Pinoy’s example
of extreme sacrifice, by the faith in God we Filipinos are known for.

Every Filipino, wherever he or she maybe in the world today, is part
of the solution. Each one of us is part of the answer. Every one of us
is part of the hope we seek for our country. The Filipino will not
become a world-class citizen unless we are able to build a world-class
homeland in our Philippines.

We are a beautiful people. Let no one in the world take that beauty
away from you. Let no one in the world take away that beauty away from
any of your children! We just have to learn – very soon – to build a
beautiful country for ourselves, with an honest and competent
government in our midst.

Mga kababayan, after reading this, I ask you to do two things.

First, defend and protect the Filipino whenever you can, especially
among your children. Fight all this negativity about the Filipino that
is circulating in many parts of the world. Let us not allow this
single incident define who the Filipino is, and who we are as a
people. And second, demand for good leadership and good government
from our leaders. Question both their actions and inaction; expose the
follies of their policies and decisions. The only way we can perfect
our system is by engaging it. The only way we can solve our problem,
is by facing it, head on.

We are all builders of the beauty and greatness of the Filipino. We
are the architects of our nation’s success.

To all the people of HK and China, especially the relatives of the
victims, my family and I deeply mourn with the loss of your loved
ones. Every life is precious. My family and I humbly ask for your
understanding and forgiveness.

Me to Angela: why, do you know what a geek is?
Angela: yes I do…! There are computer geeks, book geeks, theater geeks…

Dad (butts in): I know what a GEEK is.
Angela and I: What?
Dad: someone from GEECE.

*toink*